SXP Accidentally Formatted.. only Bootloader on, adb not recognizing anymore topic

Hello deer XDA Devs and Members...

Bought a Sony Xperia P from a Friend for a few Bucks...
Warranty is way off, so i wanted to install another ROM on it, which worked perfectly...
Had Phantom Kernel 1.1.0 B Power Saver Edition + JB MoonBreaker 3.5 ROM installed.
Then, dont ask me why, me and a friend wanted to install another ROM and so, went to bootloader and... well... formatted everything >,<
that would not have been the problem, if we hadn't also formatted the SD Card, where the ROMs were on...

Well, however, i read though several Posts, Threads, Forums, whatever i found and tried almost anything, but it didnt work...

My Data:

On Phone:
Phantom Kernel 1.1.0 B flashed through Fastboot

System:
Win 7 x64 Ultimate on Laptop
with Android SDK,
Flashtool 0.9.10.2beta6 Bin4ry
and all drivers v1.0.2 installed from Flashtool...

What i'm actually trying to do is to connect the Phone to Android SDK to use the ADB Push Command to get my ROM back on the Phone, BUT...
no matter what i do, Device is not recognized from ADB/System when in Bootloader.

I can set it to Fastboot mode and its recognized in Fastboot
can set it to flash mode and its recognized in Flashtool..
but neither ADB nor the System itself will recognize the Phone when booted to CWM (from Phantom Kernel... 6.0.2.8)

However, i also tried to flash it via Fastboot and latest 6.2.A.1.100 ROM/FW/Kernel...
Does not work, what ever i do

Flashtool the same...
I can set to Flashmode, choose the 6.2.A.1.100.ftf File and start, but it will only prepare files and then stuck... and then, the phone reboots to not existent system... so... not working either

My last option would be to get my Phone back to ADB for Push... but how, if W dont even recognize it when i connect it?


Hope you understand what i meant :P
And hope you can help me somehow...

I cant get further and am out of ideas >;<


thank you very much!

-dia